I'm not sure what other options we have and would love to hear. 

The big markets and their suburbs are likely seeing too high demand for "easier" cash flow options.

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Is it really that good given the high premium and lack of ability to change many options?  

I am selling the property with terms to Seller Carry or partner up with a developer or if the franchise brand wants to build to suit with a ground lease then I am all open to any of these options.  

I will add clauses to the lease so that the tenant must cover costs of repairs and maintanance on GD, and a clause allowing me the option to remove the GD at my discretion.

Just depends on what you are looking for and what would fit the best with your financial situation, lending options, and exit strategy.

I know this is because I have been focused on the DTC/SF traditional mortgage options or funding with buying an existing structure, but I can't see a clear path to financing a 2-fam new construction that's owner occupied (allowed by right per zoning).

Looking for advice on my options - 1.

Another option is a lease with option to purchase.