I wouldn't necessarily be uncomfortable with that (I would actually be so proud haha) since coops are community-based complexes so their primarily reason for checking the background and financials is to make sure all their neighbors are in a good standing. 

If the lawyers were hired by the wholesaler, don't listen to them or answer the phone when they call.

His tool of the trade is his phone .

You may also refinance based on the new appraised value with 90 days seasoning at 75% LTV.

I am based out of Phoenix and plan to work here.

If you can definitively prove that the seller intended to deceive you about the square footage for their personal gain, you may be able to take legal action, but probably low chance of success considering you had ample opportunity to measure the home or get an appraisal with measurements prior to closing, and had your chance to negotiate the price based on square footage and all other factors prior to closing. 

I use a filtering system based on the house number and street so every email for a particular transaction skips my inbox and goes in to a specific labeled folder.

Please DM me if you would like to discuss over the phone. 

Study different exit strategies, choose one based of off your goals, timeline, and risk tolerance, then find a mentor. 

I'm not talking about a location based on tourism where zoning allows for STRs, hotels and they have existed there for decades.I'm talking about residential zoned areas.