Your personal choice to enlist and serve in the military and the personal sacrifices you made for our country, while noble, are not relevant to the landlord-tenant relationship.Sure, the laws also prescribe a process for tenants to resolve grievances against their landlord, but in my experience (in Northeast Ohio) it is point-blank untrue that a city would ignore a single mother with a toddler who came to them saying she hasn't had proper working heat, gas is shut off to the property, there are gas leaks and no hot water, she can't bathe or cook for her child, etc.I certainly would not tell a judge that the tenant could have cleaned her toddler in a public restroom while there was no gas or hot water in the property I'm leasing her for 3+ days.

He’s out on the hedge screaming the cops show up and try to talk him down but he won’t shut up or come down .

If you shut them down and it really is a God thing that they are doing, you could be in danger of the Higher Power.

Two younger kids so it’s possible the garage entry door doesn’t get shut all the way all the time.

We told her to please park her car in the garage she complained the door slammed shut.

that same tenant will be the one who sneaks a dog in, pays his gas bill late and gets shut off, while he heats the house with the kitchen stove, punches holes in the wall when he leaves, or takes your refrigerator. 

make them put up or shut up.  2) stop asking these questions online. 

You tell them how to shut off the water to the toilet.

If they only had a M2M agreement, this won't thrill them, but they should have realized it could go either way - that either of you could end it after just 30 days, with 30 days notice.If they had a year lease, they won't be thrilled either, but they can never then claim that you held them to a year lease, when they were encountering problems, etc.Whenever I invoked the "happy clause," my complainers usually were shocked, but then shut up and quit complaining.  

You've cracked the lid on pandora's box and need to get that shut real quick imo.