No response; previously she has been very responsive via email.Emailed again 2 weeks later, she responded that day, apologized, says she signed up for autopay (I confirmed with the waste company that she did) and she says the $50 is now in the mail to me and to let her know if I didn’t get it.

Now that we are close to the 90 days being up, her lawyer sends a mail saying Bank approval has been obtained, and we are to proceed with obtaining the mortgage etc , but no proof  or copy of the approval in the mail.

And since you know he's a Realtor and researched his info online that means you must have his phone number and/or e-mail.

Their mailing address and phone number are listed below:TransUnion2 Baldwin PlaceP.O.

@Thomas E. 

The owner asked the deposit (50%) be mailed to reserve the unit, but had no paperwork to offer. 

You could have your physical address as there and mailing address where you actually live and no one will likely care.

Besides the obvious office rent, phone, internet, website costs, lic fees, your e and o will run about 1000-1300 per year.  

Account Closed a wholesaler really needs to be able to find properties on their own, usually through some kind of marketing (direct mail, bandit signs, driving for dollars, etc - search all of these topics on BP to find a wealth of information).

I have sent out thousands of postcards and letters and so far haven't event come close to closing a deal with direct mail.