Only advice I can give you is make sure you experience an AZ Summer before you move here. 

I've been hesitant to go into business with friends, but it could be a powerful play, and a valuable learning experience.

Most land somewhere in the middle.If you have experience as a DIY landlord, what has been most challenging about it?

I am looking for an assistant property management position to gain experience and build a resume.

I have a ton of property management experience here in Chicago as well as a pretty large network.

I've been running multiple student rentals for years in Reno, NV and it's been a very similar experience. 

Given experience, feel free to share where you would you start if you were in my shoes and if you're willing to have a further conversation to help me get going!

While I do not personally have a contact in KC, I'd recommend using BiggerPockets' Find an Agent tool.Its a FREE service for BP members like yourself who are looking to expand your network and find local experts.Here, you'll be connected with an investor-friendly with knowledge/experience in your desired location(s). 

Your unfortunate experience is summed up in the word ‘trust’.

Finding the right team to assist you in your journey is what is most important, that way you have guidance, experience, and a partner that is looking out for your success in your investment.