I just have a question that has most likely been answered to death on here.

Investorinˈvestər/nouna person or organization that puts money into financial schemes, property, etc. with the expectation of achieving a profit.If I'm a grieving widow/family you're coming across as a stranger who knows too much about my business and is attempting to turn a profit off of the death of grandpa. 

We worked ourselves to death to get out of student debt as quickly as possible....student debt is one of the only types to stick around through even bankruptcy, but that's besides the point: having control of your money and not letting it just disappear each month to loan payments, is incredibly liberating and exciting.

Laws which will help eliminate those scam deals.And no these laws are not the "death of the wholesaler".

It's better for the recipient to pass properties off upon death as the cost basis gets stepped up to the market value upon death. 

But it still bores her to death and makes her nervous to leverage like this.

Not in the real estate space: that horse has been beaten to death.  

We can then strategically decide where to redeploy sales proceeds without the 45/180 day timelines required under the 1031 rules.We also invest in real estate outside of our Roth IRAs and enjoy the traditional tax benefits and then struggle with the tension between "hold unto death" or sell and 1031 the proceeds.Bottom line is we are investing in real estate both inside and outside of our Roth IRAs. 

The entire time all most of you have done is complain about not being able to throw people out and put them at risk of serious illness or death.

And deed on death your half to her.