People consume information in so many ways that if you create content for only one channel or in a single format, you will miss a large chunk of your potential audience.Follow the drill of creating content for every channel with a strategy through which you will be communicating with your audience.

Anyway between buying too high, over improving and being too kind hearted I got myself in a horrible mess financially and emotionally. 

Definitely one of the more interesting, applicable and thought-provoking books I've read on communication and psychology.http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/26156469-never-split-the-difference I would also second the recommendation for "The Millionaier Real Estate Investor" by Gary Keller.

(b)(1) The three-year period leading to a presumption of abandonment of stock or another intangible ownership interest in a business association, the existence of which is evidenced by records available to the association, commences on the first date that either a sum payable as a result of the ownership interest is unclaimed by the owner or a communication to the owner is returned undelivered by the United States Postal Service.(2) The running of the three-year period of abandonment ceases immediately on the exercise of an act of ownership interest or sum payable or a communication with the association as evidenced by a memorandum or other record on file with the association or its agents.(3) At the time an ownership is presumed abandoned under this section, any sum then held for interest or owing to the owner as a result of the interest and not previously presumed abandoned is presumed abandoned.(4) Any stock or other intangible ownership interest enrolled in a plan that provides for the automatic reinvestment of dividends, distributions, or other sums payable as a result of the ownership interest is subject to the presumption of abandonment as provided by this section.

I have folks in my network that are afraid to take action and that is the only thing preventing them from reaching their dreams & goals.I will say this though...something to take into consideration:  You should have no emotional attachments to investment properties.  

I'm curious but kinda angered that these agents are all up in negative emotions about wholesaling.  

I had a MK4 Jetta that drained me of my money and my emotions but I loved every second of it.

Communication is key here, if they aren't meeting your expectations, let them know and talk it through.  

HI Amanda, if by 'wholesale' you mean low priced, I have a company that I have closed thousands of transactions with, that only charges me $395 and no other fees due to my volume, and responds to ALL communications in less than 4 business hours.

The time zone really hampers my communication with realtor.