Unless you are being unreasonable with your offers, I personally see nothing wrong with asking to write low offers.I think it was Dave Ramsey (normally I'm not a disciple but I like this comment) that said if you aren't embarrassed by your first offer then you offered too much. 

But I had to pay a second notary fee and a second overnight fee.It’s kind of embarrassing but sometimes it’s easier to fall on that grenade and admit I screwed up.

While it can feel awkward or even a little embarrassing to put yourself out there, if you develop a strategy that works and you see the successes coming from it, you will find it becomes easier.

I want the seller/homeowner to stay on the line with me long enough to hear me out, but I'm torn between the John Martinez (confused/embarrassed) approach and the normal standard approach of saying we want to buy your house.

As my husband would say, if you aren't slightly embarrassed at the lowness of the number, you are probably offering too much. 

Ok I have a pretty embarrassing math question that I feel like I should know but that I just can’t wrap my head around.I’m trying to get into the game and purchase a SFR or small MFR.

I'm embarrassed to say that I'm one of the few who hasn't read Note Investing Made Easier (yet!).

The best fix for "Analysis Paralysis" is to pick a date and announce it to everyone - you'll get in gear to do something to avoid embarrassment. 

Hey BP,I am embarrassed to say this but I still can’t grasp how the whole refinance step works within the BRRRR method.So from my understanding is say I purchase a single family home for $100,000.

I am embarrassed to ask this, but feel lost in almost a loop of analysis where both "A" and "B" answers seem to be the right one depending on the day of the week and phase of the moon.If any of your more educated souls wouldn't mind looking over my shoulder on this one and let me know what you think, I would appreciate it.Ultimate Question: Factoring out significant appreciation, would it be better to pay off a single-family-home rental than finance and buy another one?