People jumping out the windows as thay had lost everything.

Basically, you want to borrow funds from your daughter and profit off of her position.....and do so based on your expertise.....Putting all of her funds at risk in RE is not responsible in my opinion.How would you have felt if granny gave you money when you were 11 and ten years later you asked where your money was and your dad said....I'm sorry, but we lost it in a RE deal because we got sued...????

The old guy lost out on thousands of dollars worth of future work because he flaked out over fixing a couple outlets.

Now I feel like every moment in those stores is lost time in my life.

After raising money for various deals only to see it lost due to scams and inexperience a few years back, I'm working to regain credibility with private investors and do deals again.

Have I potentially lost this deal?

Don't get lost in the details.

Like I said above, I got very lucky compared to a lot of people in the San Francisco Bay Area, who lost everything during this down turn.

You may initially think the price were paying is high, but the original loan was only 55% LTV and the collateral itself has not lost much if any value as NYC multifamily market has remained strong.

I'm really not keen on getting lost in the city & missing a big chunk of the conference :-).