If you watch the news, nurses are being made to make a choice about the Vx.

Maybe your best bet is to establish better communications with your sister and law--sometimes people, especially families can talk past each other and dig in.Good luck!

That’s the best bet.

If you can use hard money to fund your deal, that would be my first choice.

Your best bet is to first start educating yourself. 

That is the whole idea of self-directed investing- that you are able to make choices that are not available with typical IRAs and 401ks, but it is up to you to make good choices based on your situation and goals.As for fraud, I believe most of this has to do with the investments that can be made with a self-directed account that are simply not possible with a typically-restrictive IRA or 401k.

$500K property,2 mortgage options:Option 1: Rate 3.375% with 25% down payment. Option 2: Rate 2.75 with 30% down payment. Which one would you choose, and why?

Many times this penalty can go up to many millions of dollars.Now let’s get back to what is the better choice, to refinance or sell a property.

@Andi Sjamsu you best bet is going to be to find something closer to the bay than the ocean.

Someone who looks like they don't have the change to ride a bus or appear to be so stupid they failed 2nd grade is not very likely to have anything for rent (and if they did it would be not be the smart choice for someone to rent from them).Gail