So its easier for the bank to refinance a private money deal rather than an a free and clear deal?

I looked at the place and found mold in the bathroom, possible lead paint flaking, and windows that have more wind blowing thru them than an air conditioner would.

I didn't even stay to hear Trump because I was so exhausted from all the other seminars and didn't feel I'd get much out of his speech.

It has exhausted it's investment potential through appreciation and as a rental is now a liability.I would be listing to sell immediately to not only access the equity but to avoid any further negative cash flow. 

I would also be open to brainstorming and working more as a team than an individual.

I was way in over my head and exhausted by the end of it.

@Jared G.I'd focus less on what you absolutely hate and focus more on acquiring the skill set to achieve the goals you set for yourself.There's very much this cheap pop psychological belief in our society that some people are introverts, and some are extroverts, and an introvert can never acquire, no matter how hard he works,  the social skills than an extrovert has.

I’m  at a point where my savings is almost exhausted and I’m no longer feeling hopeful.

We sold it almost 2 years ago just as the market was turning in our favor, but by then had exhausted savings and had some unexpected medical bills from our daughter that forced our hand to sell it and take the small amount of equity we had.

If this house was less than an hour from his house it seems very likely he would have lost much less than he is going to on this deal.