It sounds like you want to rehab. 

Sounds like you’re being sarcastic.

It’s very possible to get it down to 75% by doing the project as a whole instead of 2 stages.

Cory -   it doesnt  sound like you will need  this extra income for  qualifying so no need to wait  fyi  if your hours  will be  guaranteed and stable   , then the  higher income  should be usable ...if the  hours  are not guaranteed (  eg.. overtime ….seasonal …..not consistent ) , then  likely to not be usable Going FHA is not that  wise  as  the  FHA mortgage insurance is permanent and wont be able to  be eliminated  unless you refinance the loan plus you will have a  large upfront mortgage insurance that you have to pay at closing  ….consider using  a conventional  loan  as the mortgage insurance will  be able to drop off or be eliminated in the  future

Based on your response though it sounds like they are just responsible for hiring the attorney and managing the situation.

Bottom line is you dont sound ready to handle this and should probably just give it back and move on to get this person out of your life, how does she even know where you live?

yeap doesnt sound like a deal to me either......and the owner is deceased, did it go through probate? 

Sounds like you're going to have to use a skip trace company.

It sounds like urban legend to me. 

I am fine with that I know it sounds crazy but my mortgage is not cheap and I want someone else paying it.Now the last annoyance I am finding myself running into with this is I feel like I am getting the runaround.