* software or spreadsheets that will help track expenses - what do people suggest (I'm not a techy and don't have time to create something from scratch)* chain-of-custody on working with contractors i.e., paperwork, documentation, etc.* at what stage do we hook up with property management and aligning all that so we can rent out as soon as feasible after finishing the rehabs?  

Custodians are permitted to custody assets held in an IRA under IRC Section 408.

My issue, went through a custody battle with baby momma and The state, I won. 55k later I'm in debt (credit card) up to my eyeballs and I'm struggling.  

This is one difference between a self-directed IRA and the Solo 401k, as the IRA does not allow for participant loans.A few other Solo 401k benefits: Compared to an IRA, Solo 401k contribution limits are roughly ten times higher.There is no custodial requirement for the 401k.You don't need the additional expense and administration of an LLC to have checkbook control.There is a built in-Roth component whereas IRAs are either traditional or Roth, not both.A spouse can also participate in the same Solo 401k plan.The Solo 401k has additional tax benefits over an IRA when investing into real estate using leverage.The penalties for prohibited transactions are less severe, though it's best not to utilize this benefit :)

Obviously, there are custodial fees but provided your plan administrator allows for the rollover (something they typically allow for once you're not longer with the company) then the funds can be moved over without taxes and penalties.I'm especially inclined to recommend this move for individuals looking to diversity with investments outside of the stock market such as real estate, promissory notes, and tax liens/deeds.

I remember years ago in Silicon Valley when all maintenance and custodial staff on the campus commuted 30 - 90 minutes to work each day because they could not afford housing any closer.

All of my properties are in my name, however I have taken on a partner for new endeavors and the best way we have found to show joint custody is through an LLC.

Compared to an IRA, Solo 401k contributions limits are roughly ten times higherThere is no custodial requirement for the 401kYou don't need the additional expense and administration of an LLC to have checkbook controlThere is a built in-Roth component whereas IRAs are either traditional or Roth, not bothA spouse can also participate in the same Solo 401k planThe Solo 401k has additional tax benefits over an IRA when investing into real estate using leverageThe penalties for prohibited transactions are less severe, though it's best not to utilize this benefit :)

Look to bailee of personal property statutes and your responsibilities of having care, custody and control of personal property.

I want to do that again but 2008 hit and real estate took a plunge as you may well know, I went through a divorce and got full custody of my four kids.