I started with a quick evaluation of my budget and where I was being too 'loose' with my money.

If your going to court your probably loosing money.

Or am I overstepping my bounds since I did hire him to manage the property?

I have never had a tile come loose or break on me once set.  

After all, the $30K-$50K "deals" (and I use that term very loosely) are a dime a dozen.

If anything is damaged, the only one you can go after is the one on the lease, but if you add the second you can go after either one or both in court and credit bureaus. 4. if you do not add him, he can argue he is not bound by a lease he never saw and then you need to chase down the other one.

Since I have been mostly home bound since I joined BP I have learned much about investing from this site, YouTube, and reading. 10 hours per day (7 days a week).  

Then, maybe we could complaint about the seller's agent, but we will loose the deal. 

You won't loose too many people if they are truly low - where else will they go?

:-)But seriously, just stick to the lease, do not let them make modifications and make your new husband out to be a pitbull landlord that you will let loose if things continue down the same road.Most importantly... enjoy your day!