Local meet ups, facebook groups, anywhere hosts are hanging out join them.

In Missouri, a married couple jointly owning LLCs is generally required to file partnership returns for each LLC, necessitating Form 1065 at the federal level and Form MO-1065 for the state.However, the IRS offers a Qualified Joint Venture (QJV) election for married couples, allowing them to avoid partnership classification by treating the business as a joint sole proprietorship.

If you don't flip, these guys are usually in the appropriate isles at Home Depot with the carts of supplies or just hang around the commercial check out.

Hang in there. 

Again, all answers that might be better answered in private.You are correct that a lot of lenders just don't understand how we work as investors but that's why some of us hang out here. 

Okay pal, go with them I am sure it will work out the same (sarcasm) (hangs up phone).Like anything in life, you get what you pay for. 

The thing is huge and just sucks to have it sitting empty outside of me hanging out in there with a couple beers and a TV on nice days. 

Then you can determine whether or not to hang on to that one or seek something somewhere else.Even the decision to move into other asset classes like equities or whatever will need you to factor in the loss of investing capital in the form of capital gains tax (plus 5 years of depreciation recapture). 

Hang in there—I hope you can find a solution that works!

Once you feel like you've gotten the hang of the numbers, start putting offers in that make sense.