However, I am still very hands-on for my management business, typically logging 80 hours a week between my two jobs.

If you have an LLC, the accounts should be business accounts in the name of the LLC.

But I agree with you these guys pass up a ton of listing opportunities and given the amount of money they spend thats just wasting marketing dollars in my mind.. the laws are changing on wholesale assignment business model.. like most things RE its always changing and evolving. 

This is the cost of doing business.

They did poor due diligence and a poor business model.  

Quote from @Jaxin Pierce: I'm a self-starter entrepreneur who owns a vending machine business.

Don't apologize, don't explain how the 'chosen' tenant was more qualified than they were, wish them well in their search.You're running a business and you've made a business decision. 

If you're an investor Broker / Property Manger in this business you get 100's and 100's of investors reaching out to you wanting to spend the day with you while they are in town.

If you find a solid, boots on the ground realtor/PM who has experience in the flip business you should be fine. 

If you own the business and the land, I would keep them together.