I live in the Rochester NY  area. I've been looking to buy my first multi-family house all summer long.My search has been mainly on the mls and craigslist.I've been having a hard time finding something that will meet ...

My understanding is that you cannot put your primary into an LLC because it will trigger the due on sale clause.

You be amazed how many people I talk to that just can't or won't pull the trigger.

For example, a ROFR may be triggered by an offer received by the owner from a third party; in such a case, the owner is obligated to first offer the property for sale to the holder of the ROFR at the same price and upon the same terms. 

At some point in this process you will come across a deal that you realize is not only a great deal but you can pull it off. by that time you will have the network and knowledge to have the confidence to pull the trigger and will be on your way.At 41 you are starting younger than I did.

I planned on sharing my 2nd rough draft with Bigger Pockets to receive some feedback and advice on how I can improve the overall quality of the letter once more before I go ahead and pull the trigger.

My father-in-law passed away recently, and that is what has triggered a lot of this exploration.  

I have enough capital to pull the trigger NOW but im in the NJ/NYC area. 

I've been on BP for quite a while just absorbing as much information as possible, but now I want to finally pull the trigger.

Few months ago decided to pull the trigger and start a mailing campaign and am very happy with results.