.)- If you will be using a local realtor, property manager, or CPA see who they recommend- If you are doing any renovation or new home construction check for a local Building Contractors Association and see if there are any agents affiliated.

The partner and I both agree that I should be solely responsible for the capital gains tax associated with the sale of the property. 

., buy the vehicle in the business name and have the associated debt in the business name.  

Those brokers with substantial business simply do not have time for such things.There are specific hotel associations  for real estate and likely to find a broker there that specializes in them.

Private lenders can be found on bigger pockets (visit the different sections associated with lending; also check the marketplace) or google. 

I am in the same position as you. https://www.meetup.com/New-York-Real-Estate-Investors-Association/events/236958107/

If a condo association has too many rentals, as opposed to owner-occupiers, it may be difficult to obtain the financing you desire.  

I've considered living in one of the units to take advantage of the low down payments associated with fha loans, but I'm open to just owning and managing the property while living elsewhere as well.

Start with the BP podcasts and then your local REIA (Real Estate INvestment Association) as that will likely be your best networking venue

I guess it could be a Freudian slip of some type associated with my infant years and dear mothers .. eh, never mind.At least my "vote" count should go up!