Good evening BP,I am looking to purchase my very first deal this summer and I want to acquire the property by acquiring private funding either from friends or family.My question to all of you is how did you go about acquiring your first private funding?

I met a private lender on LinkedIn.

seems like that is a bank refi situation not a raise private money so the owners have little to no skin in the game

Unfortunately if multiple visitors come to visit the tenant, and those visitors have a private conversation then I don’t think that applies for consent since the tenant isn’t a part of that specific convo.

Since these disclosures are private, and not part of the public record, it does not violate the anonymity you’re seeking.Please feel free to connect with me if you’d like to know more.

I'll send you a private message to discuss further.

My mother was a lender at a private finance company when I was a kid, and she taught me this trick.

Some private lenders will sell REOs with title issues, knowing that they'll take a hit on their selling price.

Are you paying cash or financing, and if so, what does the mortgage payment look like, or private money interest look like. 

There are definitely some private lenders out there that can be of assistance for you.