You should have no problem finding a good mentor if you try this  approach.

I was approached by one of my very good friends and co-worker to help him list his house on the MLS.

For me, the hands-off approach with a provider works well, but that may not fit your investing strategy.Neil

What is the right approach when talking returns on their investments?

In fact, someone approached me on Sunday trying to petition to keep the chickens she's had on her property for many years.

You could learn about self directed IRA's and approach people that you know who have nice sized retirement funds and tell them how they could earn 10% on their money by becoming a private lender on a house that you want to buy and flip.

When I have a problem with someone I will address it and give them 3 chances to change or take an action.You approach your business in a professional manner and it sounds like your associate isn't on the same page as you. 

It has always been a plan of mine to try to purchase this 4-plex as well and since I am not getting the tenant interest that I would prefer, I think I would like to approach the owner sooner than later.  

's hold approach and would welcome if the property doesn't sell right away.  

Although I anticipate approaching family first, I want to get an idea of what paperwork I would need to pursue such a loan so that I come across as prepared as possible.