A meeting was set up for me to sign docs, and briefly read docs as I was signing, the wire instructions were included.Just prior to wiring funds , there was a warning about wire fraud , and I noticed that no letter head was included with the wiring instructions.

I feel like it is because recently I plugged in an ac unit and notice when it kicks on and my light is on it flickers for a second.

If the triplex has equity, tap that to purchase addition cash positive earning property.If the Triplex isn't cash flow positive, then that would be the time to think about a 1031 exchange into something that is cash flow positive.Everyone has to think about their personal goals when investing, short term and long term.

I haven't read the posting at the link you provided, nor have I done this or any wholesaling either, but if this would be done by the wholesaler taking some form of equity position in the property, in lieu of collecting a wholesale fee, then I would think that this would be addressed in the deed showing the form of ownership as well as identifying the owners of the property (as well as some other partnership agreements/documents detailing ownership structure and management responsibilities).

I noticed another one-bed west of Ave Q with supposedly higher rents. 

He has no real reason to lie where as tenants will usually lie to strengthen their position.

It's like you're asking them them to take SECOND position - which they won't do, UNLESS they agree to give you SECOND mortgage Rates!

See if something positive comes out of our meet

I doubt you even need to give them notice.

I got a notice yesterday that there was a stop payment on the check.