The husband accepted this lien from Veterans Affairs while being ill-equipped to do so due to his severe PTSD.

.: I get what you are trying to do and protect, but this is a very slippery slope to get into....In the veterinary field we see this all the time....upset clients going on social media and trying to destroy vets and clinics..... and a lot of the time post complete bullsh$t and inaccurate accounts of the situation.

I'm not the most handy and have thought of taking a person knowledgebale in home improvement or a handyman to tour the property with me (after my offer is accepted) to gauge potential issues with the home and have a better idea of the home's condition before I have the home inspection.

Anyways, assuming she accepts, does any of this make sense? 

It's part of participation trophy society where people get socially rewarded for just being in the game, but that shouldn't apply to real estate.

Offer to let her out of the lease without penalty and hope that she accepts the offer.

Engage in networking, social media, on line forums, associations, etc and showcase your expertise.3.

Feel free to DM me, or better yet, connect with me on my other socials. 

I’m a bit of a nerd with an analytical streak, attempting to break out of my shell and be more social—so if you see me in real life, get ready for a nerd trying to be outgoing!

You might want to look up Ray Glymph on socials (Instagram).