We are totally stalled out and looking for community and advice and to help others if we can!!! 

I am totally open to ideas and constructive criticism as I stated I am new to this and would like to learn from all of you experts:) Thank you so much in advance!

Since I'm a part-time flipper and work full-time, sometimes I'm can't be fully present when a project starts.

I've already bought the property because I was afraid of rising rates (got a 3.4% thank goodness because they're literally in the 7s now), but it's still costing me 1800/month before construction starts.

Start by reaching out to local hard money lenders in your area.

Eventually, your property snowball will start building momentum and your efforts will start compounding. 

I actually started looking in the Union County area.

Mentors are found by building relationships at meetups in real life, not online when you are just getting started unless you are using the forums as your meetup and you are really getting to know people.4.

We could then refi that property and use it to start a BRRR.  

Start with BiggerPockets Ultimate Beginners Guide (free).