You have to be patient and not take every deal that comes along. 

Be patient and keep looking.

Reading anything real estate related that I can get my hands on, listening to the BP podcasts instead of repetitious music and patiently building the capital to attain my goal is what I am currently working on. 

I am patiently waiting to find a truly great deal.

Well, a few weeks had passed without hearing anything, the holidays passed, and my realtor assured me that the holidays must have slowed down the FHA appraisal process and to be patient.  

My advice right now is to be patient.  

But it's being patient through the process of trying to find a deal lol!

You also mentioned that i was given as chance to walk away from the purchase but that was when we had a discussion about the delay of the Rehab for more than 2 months, believe me i would have never purchased the property if i knew there was a break-in history from a sqatter even before the purchase.When the first break-in happened i was patient enough and did not say anything.

Make sure they too will be patient with you as right now to find a good flip you'll have to look at a lot of properties.  

Spend this time trying to meet the right one, one's that's investor friendly and patient.