Follow that up with whatever other actions you need to. 

Your seller hasn't had much action on this thing, you may want to call them and say you want to close 3 weeks later and see what they say.Depending on the lender, the two loans shouldn't be a big deal as long as the cash reserves are there, assuming both loans are Hard Money. 

One option of course is eviction with the aid of an attorney and the courts... emphasize this is a bad choice for him (which it is) and no action means that the family will pursue that option.

Aside from the other very true comments here I'd start watching the ongoing news from Inman and the local clubs where you intend to land.  

@Rafael Floresta If you are the successful bidder of a property being sold at Sheriff's Sale in a foreclosure action, you will receive title free and clear from the previous owners debts, including tax liens.

The good news is that in this information age, the information is all a click away.

If she does mortgage assistance and sends the info in whatever action if any will be stopped.

I have learned so much through the podcast and recommended books in the podcast, which is why i have decided to finally create my profile, where i will hopefully learn a lot more through relationships in bigger pockets and start taking action.

I am an entrepreneur by nature and I am super eager to learn and start taking action!

I also suspect that some of the relatives don't want the owner to take action on the houses during their own lives, as they have plans for the property themselves later on- I have encountered on one house already.