If prospects upload ID, pass a quick background check, and maybe upload a pre-approval letter, I think that answers both the security and tire-kicker concerns. 

You'd need to show the income on your tax returns and/or have a lease and first month's rent/security deposit for the unit you were living in.

It outlines how the couple will handle their finances during and after the marriage, including: Property and assets: How to divide property and assets in the event of a divorce or death Debts: How to allocate debts Spousal support: Whether and how to provide alimony Inheritance rights: How to handle inheritance rights A prenup can help protect both parties' interests, and can be an effective way to avoid court proceedings and minimize the emotional and financial toll of a divorce.

How are they coming up with a security deposit and a months rent and moving costs for a new apartment?

My front is similar with packages delivered most days and being very confident if delivered to the front door that they are very secure.  

Not mentioned, is recognition of other opportunities that a well-secured note may provide strategically, if placed well.

Did you receive security deposits with interest and pro rata rent for the month at settlement?

You may want to remove yourself from the situation since you are emotional about the situation.

Additionally, are you recommending that we should prioritize taking action and securing properties that align with our long-term investment strategy?

This means securing at least two bookings (to get a stay of less than 7 days) and completing all setup tasks.