I haven't heard much information about whether or not to already have an established relationship with a title company (I thought it would make sense to have a contract first, so I'm already bringing them business).

Sure, it sounds innocent from the story, but it always made me question why my boss was maintaining that relationship... of course, it was a little different because this guy was caught as the originator on the fraudulent loans, not the owner of the properties (they also were busted).

Don't look for alternative ways to give away your savings, just hold on and wait and read and learn and build relationships.

Does it vary for BRRRR, Buy and Hold, Fix N Flip…Relationships with BankersRelationships with Mortgage BrokersRelationships with Private Money LendersFriends and Family who could become lendersContractors/HandymenTitle CompanyAttorneyProperty ManagersRealtor(s)Other Investors 

I know people in their 50s that struggle to make ends meet with real estate despite having great relationships, college degrees, and decades of work/life experience.

If you've been in practice for over 20 years, I would assume you have some existing relationships with local banks. 

You're right, it is a long list, but the reality is that if a provider will spend some time with you and answer your questions with a serious demeanor, then you just may have the start of a great relationship.  

I agree, joining as an LP from a syndication group would be a great start but remember to find the best relationship for you and not just the perfect project or property.

Moving forward with a property in an area where you have relationships/connections and combining that with your goals of the four drivers...

do you have any relationships with this contractor already?