We are wondering how we could best maximize our return on the property- either by partnering with a developer to eventually share returns or hiring a developer/general contractor/house builder ourselves and managing the project ourselves. 

PS: He suggested me an FHA 203k, but I'm not open to that because I want to reserve my FHA loan to buy my primary residence home by the end of the year. that's why I'm interested in this deal, well done, it will not impact my credit score.So how will you go about this deal?

I'm asking so I know how to suggest a deal structure that will make sense both for you, and an NYC buyer. 

You will be better off going to a real estate networking event where you can meet multiple people instead of 1 person via coffee.You can meet someone at a networking event and ask them for coffee / lunch at a later time if you click or want to learn more from the person.i would suggest Meetup.com, eventbrite or biggerpockets to find networking events.

If you're just starting, I'd suggest you attend some local meetups and network with some local, established, successful investors.  

Hello everyone,I was wondering if any of you would mind sharing a bit on how you first began,and give a brief description of what you had to start with and how you scaled to where you are now.Thanks!

I'm completely open to hearing your suggestions and experiences.

I'm not doing any suggesting to him, just laying out all I can to see what's most attractive to their goals.

Hello all,Just wondering what you all think about Blytheville, AR.

I would suggest that route if you intend to wholesale, or play the numbers game on the MLS and make hundreds of offers until you land a deal (a real deal).