I think the reality is the ones that are successful on either side have a misunderstanding about the other side of things.

Again the point I'm trying to make is you will probably hurt your chances by trying to include your addendum & in reality, considering how the whole process tends to run out, will have no actual power.

(This is getting so silly I can hardly keep it up, pointing out reality!)

Everything is always boiled down so simple as this is bad and that is good when reality really isn't that way.

You now shock them into reality.

The repercussions of that decision not only equal getting blackballed fromm HMLs, it will be a real forclosure on your credit report which will get you blackballed from consumer credit and mortgages and possible have negative affects on your business depending on how it is structured.So in reality, you will end up paying points and fees and penalties out the arse to the HML over time until the house finally sells because it will always be better to pay an extra 2000 dollars to avoid a foreclosure if you can afford it.

Also have found that reality is it doesn't matter what the lease says about it being their responsibility when all the courts do, at least in Virginia where this happened, is issue a judgment.

First drove down with list of potential homes, drove neighborhoods, weeded out areas we didn't like -- neighborhoods that seem great on paper can be horrible in reality.

Assuming you have a nice down payment, an owner that wants out will be your best bet for the loan.Do some reading in the rental property forum to learn the realities of rentals.

My situation was kind of different.My father was killed in a car accident when I was 15 turning 16 years old.It was just me and my mom facing the world trying to rebuild our identities in life.I mainly went to school to make my father happy but I loved learning.When I had the 98 and 96's scores for subjects he would love bragging to his family so that always made me feel good that he was so happy.I stayed at home and went to college for 2 years and it was all paid for and I could have gone longer but I felt a different calling.To create,innovate,and feel alive and passionate about being a business owner.I would hang around other business owners as a teen to get their perspective on things.Amazingly most said it is good to have book knowledge but practical knowledge will get you much further in business on the street.It's kind of like a professor teaching business classes that has never ran a business in their whole life.They know nothing but theory and what sounds good.In reality I want to learn knowledge from thriving business owners who have been in the game for awhile and have real world experience.I did move out from my mom's place although I was in my mid to late 20's but my life wasn't typical like many.I believe it is fine for kids to stay at home as long as they are bettering themselves and have a plan to get on their feet.Sadly many are being and free loading and not requiring much of themselves and I do not agree with that.