Not sure you meant to say "management company or owner" did you? 

"don't hold spots forever" I meant, so he might lose it and have to start the search over again which may be his plan, conscious or unconscious.

I am guessing that if they were sued for an obvious attempt to skirt the law, they can say that they did not explicitly say that they don’t except section 8: they just simply stated that the building is not certified but obviously the statement is meant to have the same impact and I am wondering how such a thing can hold up in court.

To clarify, when I said monthly payments, I meant my monthly interest costs for the hard money loan, contractor was paid for demo, permits, surveys and drawings so far, nothing else.

Which if you’d like, feel free to add.But no matter which scenario, whatever loss, potential gain and all the relatively stupid mistakes that I made with this one deal, do you honestly feel that I am just not meant for real estate?

By 30 days, I meant that I am very compassionate and understanding for one month.

They're not meant to work together easily. 

That meant doing very little for almost 4 years, and that 4 years was a blood bath for people who thought it was always a good time to buy.  

Real Estate is so fluid that setting a date does not make sense for me.

Late fees aren’t revenue generators, they are meant to incentivize timely payment.