I am new to Real Estate Investing and am so exhausted from all the seminars and books, and programs and have never been more confused.

There is a program called Pacer where you can pay to see the filing documents online. 

This question is for the out-of-state investors, what frequent flyer and/or business travel programs would you recommend to save on travel expenses for trips to acquire and check up on your properties.Any advice would be appreciated. 

Both will run you about $160 for a year's worth of education in several meetings held throughout the month, but be advised that they are also heavy into information marketing (different speakers will attempt to sell you their programs) so keep your checkbook/credit card at home for the first several months while you gain your education.

does anyone know any grant programs in the ny area , looking to buy an investment property as first time home buyer but not looking to lose my shirt

Canadian real estate investors can pick up properties pennies on a dollar provide you have proper training from Canadian real estate expert.

LOLJust go to the bank and ask them what they will require, they will be very informative, and if they are a portfolio lender, they may even have some programs available to you. 

Wishing you good luck with your investing program. 

Currently RI has this new program for college students, where they give new graduates $7k  down payment through their first home www.gradgrant.org. 

There are some guidelines with this program so definitely take a more in-depth look.