Do you just want to keep the 90k tied into property or refi, pull it out and go get other cash flow.    

One guy on here can hardly post anything without tying it to some success story or the wealth he claims.

One of them stops to tighten up his shoe laces. 

I find myself, on even day to day purchases/activities, saying to myself "if I save this much money today by not buying new gym shoes or not going out for dinner then I can put that back for the next rental".  

Buyers are suspect of inspection reports from a "buddy" of the seller.They want these reports completed with absolutely no ties to the seller and that includes a survey.There is business brokerage and sale of the business only and then a hybrid of the business and the real estate.With the business you first have to determine if it's a saleable asset or not??

You can waste a lot of time trying to separate the BS and emotionally charged opinions from solid, factual content or search for competent training that's not merely intended to fund the lifestyle of some real estate guru-wannabe.If I were in your shoes again, I'd spend some time committing myself to searching this and other sites for names of trainers that provide type-specific education.

He also has some of his kids shoes, toys in the attic.

Perhaps it is because I'm comfortable in my own shoes and need little to be motivated when it comes to RE.Bill's comment above from forum post on "Financial Freedom" got me to thinking, what does investor psychology mean?

But now, faced with my current situation with my actual money tied up in the deal I am looking at it totally different.

Are you willing to wait for an unknown amount of time to hopefully realize that benefit with all that money tied up making small ROI?