Originally we though we'd live in the condo 2 years and then the multifamily 2 years, but it'd be nice if the primary residence designation is easily changeable....if the multifamily does not close, then we would have the condo as our primary residence. not sure if that important of an issue...4) The contract that has disclosures about lead and radon...we live in New Jersey, so for renting we sign disclosures about lead, since all the houses here are old and anything prior to 70's will have lead, so in the contract when they have radon....lead....naturally occurring substances in New Jersey, is this standard in the contract? 

I am very conservative in nature (something I inherited from my years of practicing law) and assume that in 5-6 years the market will not be as strong as it is today, and property prices will DROP.

Natural gas.

I guess it depends on the nature of your relationship.

He continually cites the dog smell, which naturally leads us to believe he wants to fund it using our deposit.  

A nearby lot suggests the land could be used for a multifamily home for student housing, but based on the area (and due to the nature of students) it seems that each rental unit would not go for much money, and even if it did cashflow, I have seen videos of landlords (and know from experience) that housing students can be destructive and costly.But, if I could figure out a purpose for this land which would net the owner a profit over the long run and gain enough knowledge to sell the idea, I would buy the lot with the purpose of flipping it to a developer who is more interested in long-term gains.

This will give you an indication of the conservative nature of the cash flows at the property.

As time has gone on, I assumed that both properties would be easy to rent as I would target other officers living in those areas who’s BAH would naturally cover my mortgage.  

However- given the nature of this question, I am going to assume you have no experience as a landlord at all.

I don't really ask them as a question --- I just naturally try to bring it up during a conversation to see what he or she has to say.       1.