I can't continue providing that service if the landlord takes over management.

the insurance companies are not charities; they deserve to make reasonable profit for providing the insurance.  

If she is getting close enough to thinking that there will be an income disparity, she will stop at nothing to compel my husband to provide income documentation.All finances are joint except for the rental, which I keep rents for in a separate checking account and track spending for.

Then the remaining profits get distributed at whatever split you both agree to...I often see it start at 25/75 (75 to the person in your position) and then maybe increase it to 40/60 or 50/50.It would really help if you could provide some numbers on your deal. 

Why not test the market by putting the lots up for sale, and if nobody bites, that might provide your answer. 

They only do Memphis and Little Rock and may provide you with the end result without the hassle if you like that market.

I specialize In helping investors like yourself locate, and secure investment properties and provide a hands off experience along the way.

Finding a good PM will cover your concerns on managing the rental from OOS and a good agent should be able to provide you with their network of deals, including on and off market opportunities. 

We have had one attorney contact us about one of their clients saying they never completed the form - we sent them the information and they asked us for all this other information which we ignored as we had no obligation to provide any information to them.

Is it provided by PreREO and who is the loss payee?