With C or below you probably can't avoid some of it so I'd go with a recency bias, ie anyone who has a long period of time between their last eviction and successful rentals other places will be a safer bet than the guy that just got evicted. 

Unless you absolutely love flipping I have often seen it is a means to generate short-term capital that you can then put into rentals (aka long term wealth). 

Now, some of these answers will depend on what state that property is in, how much equity you have, and a couple of other factors...but you can certainly seek out other lenders about a Line of Credit on an investment property.  

I did my first long-term holds in Scranton after much research and have enjoyed a steady cash flow. 

Welcome to BP, this is a great platform to network.

LMHA gets a staff of a couple dozen people and a big budget to be bureaucratic, the tenant gets cost effective safe housing, and we get steady rent checks)Does anyone else have these issues???

With so many banks to choose from and me already doing thorough research, I was hoping someone had a personal good experience with a certain bank or an individual at a bank who understands our world.

This could have cost you your interest at a minimum and perhaps a fortune to defend.

I would not sell unless you have another place to move that is basically paid for.

If 3 properties are a bit too much to handle right now, you could sell one and focus on the other two like others have mentioned. :)