maybe i need to do a fast flip or two....but I don't have the cash to throw at that.One day it is my hope to have a business with three tiers:  Custom Homes, Rental/Flip, and Handyman

You can't count on believing that the family member will not produce a handwritten lease (real or not), or other paperwork & tactics, to throw a big old wrench in your initial/expected timeline.You CAN expect that if they see you as the big old rich/developer/bad guy enemy, they will do as much damage as they can, and drag their feet as long as possible.See if you can feel out what the relative actually wants/ needs, connect/come prepared with info on resources for local "housing help" options, etc (perhaps), and figure out what you can do to solve the problem (cash for keys with an incentive for quicker move out timeframe?

Having worked in a large corporation most of my career, the more analytics you throw at something, the more comfortable management feel about actually making a decision. 

The agent wont be able to provide you much other than support since its a wholesale deal.If you want to include your agent in on the fun just throw a 1% fee their way and just let them do the rest.

Yep my lender is going to throw a good word in!

The sky is really the limit in there.Also I just throw an idea, if you open big business, lets say car repair facility in Kona, you only have few competitors.

Or,You could throw dynamite in the water. 

It throws off a nice cash flow and has room to improve.

However, you might as well throw your money out the window if you are paying for promised service but are getting cheap results. 

And they love to spray fire extinguishers and throw them and potentially break out windows.