What kind of resources, websites, or people should I start talking to so I can understand how to buy a home? 

once you get the right setup, lending from a deferred retirement account can be a great idea, just make sure you understand the process and how to properly underwrite borrowers

If you want to collect a commission you need to be licensed with FINRA.Capital Raising: Understanding Commissions, Referral Fees, and Finders Fees | American Association of Private Lenders (aaplonline.com)

I have heard several podcasts about the importance of a solid tax strategy.

The valuation for my property has gone from 35 to above 60 due to the price I purchased at and I understand this was my shortcoming not realizing this would happen.

I suspect an experienced local investor would not be scared off by this house because they could physically see and understand how to address the issues in a common sense affordable way.

You should understand who is placed in a halfway house in the first place.

Usually booked solid.

Having cameras during the rehab isn't bad but make sure your team is solid if you are nervous

I am not looking for a number, but an understand of the process when a spouse dies.