As far as meetups go, you can find a lot of local events posted here on BiggerPockets: https://www.biggerpockets.com/forums/521-real-estate-events-...I also have a list of Chicago meetups that I can share with you as well.

You can also contact a local alcoholics anonymous or other organizations and let them know you have space available for anyone living sober.

Quote from @Ray Joseph: If you attend a local meetup, I'm sure you'll find investors that operate in other cities or states.And you have thousands of out-of-state investors to mingle with right here!

Maybe network with local hunting ranches see if you could find an investor to help manage the property, the wildlife, advertising and lodging. 

One needs to have outstanding local market knowledge to underwrite effectively. 

As U.S. citizens residing in Europe, we are required by the local tax code to hold the property in our personal name.

Hi does anyone have experience with providing direct STR stays (so not through Airbnb or VRBO) and charging, collecting, and remitting the local Chicago hotel tax?

As for meeting local wholesalers, networking at meetups or even online could help you connect with the right people. 

Best bet is to try local and credit unions, possibly may have some programs for better rates.

Reach out me as I am a local Realtor and can assist you!