There's a good chance the issue(s) you face has already been discussed and answered.Ask questions in the appropriate forum.

How would you recommend, or what resources would you refer for us to properly figure out how we spend our time and appropriately get compensated for it?

There's a good chance the issue(s) you face has already been discussed and answered.Ask questions in the appropriate forum.

Much of my career for the last decade has been in Cybersecurity, and we feel the same about DOJ and regulations around incidents. 

I do NOT trust “regulators”.

As with most municipalities and jurisdictions, the evolution of the AirBnB market has spawned regulation and restrictions on where, when and how a STR can operate.

That would bypass many city/state regulations that force landlords to rent to people here illegally. 

Wholesalers are not regulated by Real Estate Agency, therefore not required to abide by certain laws and disclosures.

I also doubt very seriously that any brokerage/custodian is going to allow this kind of loan with 401k assets; it's likely going to need to be a 401k general purpose loan, which is highly regulated (as someone else mentioned). 

Those types of conversations or tactics are now going to be regulated.