Just realize that there are pros and cons to it all.Good luck.

Another one 1 is midway through a 203k rehab project on a 4plex that will turn into a BRRRR. 3rd is in the process of looking for a househack but after much deliberation realized that lifestyle is better than cashflow and wants to be outside of Worcester.

We don't know his experience, he most likely does have some knowledge or experience that he doesn't even realize, that is why he is pursuing it.

Do realize many times you might have to take what they say as a grain of salt.

That is exactly the reason why the seasoning clauses have been put in place and it makes me sad to think of these people out here in pennsylvania grinding like hell to get a deal, and once they do they realize at closing that they have to pay for the closing, twice.

Me, as a wholesaler, of course, I prefer a buyer who is all cash, since lenders can make things very complicated and potential de-rail my relationship with the seller if the buyer blows out due to lender issues, however if it's more of a hard money/private lender who has lended on these types of properties before and realizes things may not be perfect, then I sometimes will allow my buyers to use a lender, however then we have to do an Amendment/Addendum to the contract that the seller has to sign that acknowledges it changing from an all cash deal to one with debt, which so far I've been able to finesse sellers into.

I sold my paid off house years ago after I realized I should leverage up. 

Good luck, try to build up her confidence and please realize that your marriage is more important. 

I realize everyone will have a different story and every new RE agent will have a different outcome depending on their hustle but would still love to hear some scenarios of past or current brokerage relationships.

@Paula Agustina Zampallo RamirezGM Paula, I realize this post is almost a year old but would you please share your list of awesome contacts.