How did you do it and balance home life, and was a property management company a good solution? 

In the same boat, but I already own my primary residence through an FHA loan...

Most importantly, as a business you have to clearly identify a problem people are facing and show them why you are their best solution.    

@Rick Wang so you actually hinted to the solution of my problem but I would like to clear a few things from your post. 

Your VA loan eligibility will allow you to purchase primary residency homes (lower down payment and interest rates) that you can later use as rentals.

At this point, I would work for a QUICK solution, get as much as you can within reason, get them OUT, and start over.

Have you thought about moving out of your house, turning it into a rental, and getting another primary residence with an FHA loan?

However, a Proprietary System is not the only solution.

Thankseveryonee for your feedback,This person sold his primary resident last year and renting right now but the property in new york free and clear..though he lives in south carolina... should I consider new york home to be his primary resident cause I dont want to get into residential lending..thanks

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