@David Ribardo and @Joe C jump in with any edits/comments you might have Purchase Price $149,900 (50K a door rule looks good) Three units total gross/month 2239 (1% rule looks good) Fixed expenses: Taxes 2517, Trash 1125 (375/unit in Allentown unless private collection deal previously arranged) Insurance: 703 Common Electric: 519Water/Sewer: 802Allentown Fee: 225 (75/unit/year) Variable Expenses:  Vacancy: 2239 (One months rent of each place, or 8.3%) Management: 1800 (50/door/month) CapEx/Maintenance: 3000 (1000/door) Total Operating Expenses: $12,930 Total Gross Income: $26,868Net Operating Income: Op Ex - Gross = $13,938 Divide your NOI by the cap rate your looking for and you have your offer price.

Is she willing to either (A) kick them out and ruin the relationship or (B) have a hard conversation with them?

Document all conversations you've had with all involved parties immediately.3. 

-Should I just focus on getting a private lender to help financing instead? 

I'll Private Message you as well. 

Conversation about up and coming areas near the city are not hard to find.

I learn best by discussion and conversation and would like to meet investors in my area and market.

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Hi @Andrew Merritt,You have a few options.First, you can try to bring in your brother-in-law's parents as private money lenders. 

Currently only buying of MLS.Also interested in private funding...