You chose your lender and you can also choose to find a new one, although it may cost you the deal and your earnest money. 

I was told by a lender that it is possible to qualify for first-time homebuyer grants/assistance due to him still be a FTHM and still using my income to assist with the home purchase.

We then tell the lender/broker that the appraiser needs to call us to get access to the property.

But, at least there is time for you to have some plan B moves and still own the property, because when the lender calls a note due, it doesn't happen over night.

Some states are easier than others; however, it is important to understand the process and laws of owning properties in another foreign state.Find your core-4: Realtor, Lender, GC, and PM.

Did you work with any real estate professionals (agents, lenders, etc.) that you'd recommend to others?

I had never thought of refinancing it with another lender

Would like to know what lender and contractor you used.Any contractors out there work with a 203k loan before?

Hi Denise - If you're eyeing a DSCR loan, maintaining your primary residence is necessary, as most lenders require it.Refinancing could provide quick access to funds by leveraging the equity in your primary property.

Might need a Lender!