I am a local realtor and investor.

As I dive into all the different paths I can take (single family vs multi-family, short term vs long term, cash flow vs appreciation, local vs out of state, etc..) my mind is scrambling and I've ended up doing nothing at all.I'm looking to join a mastermind that meets consistently and can really motivate one another to take our businesses to the next level. 

Hello Sheree, A good place to learn about wholesaling will be going to the local REIA.

Also, happy to connect and share insights on market trends and local contractor recommendations.

Your best bet is to find and contact all of the top local wholesalers and go to work for one of them and see what they do right and wrong and see if it's even a business you like.

@Angela Hudson if you want to fix/flip find someone local and fund their deal (ie lend).

Are there any local real estate meet-ups or community here that investors meet-up?

Connecting with local investors, lenders, and mentors can also help you find creative financing opportunities to get your first deal done.Good luck!

Do I contact appraisers and local title insurance agencies to begin to find one that I could use? 

But you knew the local landfill/trash incineration company had been given the ok to build a massive facility in 3 years.