You have gotten so many great tips already.  

Also my phone number is herein, call, am willing to talk/help.

You can start by not calling us Boomers, lol.

I would tell people today that if you buy a primary residence expect to stay in that home for atleast five years, especially with a FHA loan which has lower down payment as the current forecasts for home appreciation or very low which with closing costs on the buy and sell, it will take several years to have equity in the property and enough to be able to sell, so that is something also to consider.

So far, I haven't had any issues renting my unit.

If they don't, then you can dispose of the items (sell, give away, trash, keep, etc.).The husband is not the legal occupant, so you have no requirement to give him notice or access to what was left behind.

If so, I'd like to connect and get pricing for a couple of permits out here in FL.

If so put less money down, eat the cost, and use the saved money for the next one. 

I am so full of regret for even giving them a 3rd and 4th chance.

so if you don't have a lot of money, then you'll have to save some up.hope this helps