In these cities, your financial resources will go a long way enabling you to assemble a diverse multifamily portfolio and initiate a steady stream of income.

I am trying to come up with a slew of options to present to my ex-partner that will enable me to keep the home while relieving her of her responsibility and ownership claim, that does not disturb the financial instrument until such time that we deem economic factors make a refi more appealing.  

There are 2 databases of these 203k lenders called the FHA Lender List and the 203k Endorsement Summary Report.There are also contractors who have earned the accreditation as a Certified 203k Contractor that are not only educated on the 203k but also financially vetted. 

Do some data-based analysis to determine if this investment makes sense as opposed to emotion driven decision making.

On #2, the reason to take a lower interest rate is that I get the price I want for the house (which would be difficult in this interest rate environment) and enable the buyer to purchase the home with lower monthly rates,  where he would not have been able to do so otherwise AND I still make a healthy return on the money until he refinances.

This will enable you to more efficiently monitor any financial activity linked to your house hack.Create forms for a rental agreement that spells out the terms and conditions of the renting.

. $2,500.00 oh you want a lenders database another $2,500.00 oh now scope of work and rehab resources another $2,500.00 but wait then we have..SUPER MYSTERY WEEKEND in Vegas! 

I've seen statistics quoted in various articles but not in an organized database.

When class codes are enabled, every transaction can be assigned to a class code and from that information, you can run a Profit and Loss Statement not just as a total aggregate number but broken down by each property.

:D  Also, perhaps you have bonus depreciation or similar write-offs that can enable those to break even or product income.