And I get the latest posts NOT related to my search terms. 

Unless they had a reason they didn't move it for 45 minutes, (like injury or a health issue that happened after I asked) it's just blatant disrespect IMO.

Does anyone have any good books, articles, websites, podcasts to recommend to me that relate to systemizing a real estate business?

Sometimes a bank has extra rules, we call these "overlays", but you should be able to find financing relatively easy without having to season those funds. 

Not RE related but it makes you think different in that you’re fully responsible for your success (or failures).

My relatives " partners" are all in on the buy and hold thought process.

I could basically do everything related to management for them, including optimizing the listing to increase earning potential, organize the cleaning, and everything in between!

Either the relative is lending you enough to buy the property, in which case you don't need a bank at all; or the relative is lending you money for a down payment. 

Ideally the rents would be under market with the units as-is, or under what you could get after relatively minor updates to the units, giving you an opportunity to increase NOI.Of course the expenses in the listing are only $9,784 per year - in listings they are always going to be low, to inflate the NOI. 

Did the title company find anything related to this?