First and foremost, be patient and educate yourself first.

But maybe I just need to be more patient 

If none of this produces anything deeper just reassure your wife you’ll have a safety system to catch your daughter if it ends up overwhelming her.

MF ALL NEED WORK, utilities separated/upgraded & are being subjected to very strict fire safety compliance (we had to design, install & add 24/7 fire sprinkler system monitoring).

@Nathan G.It’s a safety hazard.

You want to be focused, but patient and it seems like you are.

The most important thing is to be patient.

At your age you have time so be patient but don’t waste it.

It's tough to cash flow here, but I'm able to do it by being patient and purchasing properties that haven't hit the market.

You can offer to do a safety only inspection addressing only safety and health items around the home or an informational only where you're assessing the property through the inspector's eyes but do not have the grounds to negotiate after inspection.