One is a nurse practitioner and the other a nurse anesthetist.

On the 15th I had my mother-in-law, who lives 30 minutes away, serve a 3 day notice.    

My wife is a nurse so once she graduated she bought a house 4 months later because she got a job as a nurse.

I wanted to rehab this former drug house because it was two doors down from my Mother's house.

Here is my situationI am 30 years old mother of 2 children and married. 

Some of them allowed the new buyer to renovate and raise rents, one of them allowed the owner to air bnb a "mother in law" unit. 

If it were me, I'd just ride her out until she passes away or goes into the hospital/nursing home.

For the next property and to avoid paying so much towards a downpayment for a multi family we bought a single family home with a mother in-law suite.

You're right, the money is:more expensiverequires a larger down paymentsometimes has shorter termssometimes has to be and ARMThe commercial money works when:You own the property in an LLC and you want to keep it in an LLCYour debt ratio is crazy because you write everything and its mother offYou can't season the funds to closeYour partner has a credit score that kills your loanYou own more than 10 properties and your wife won't let you get more in her name Myriad other reasons to use commercial moneyCommercial money is out there when conventional no longer becomes an option.Stephanie

In the process of gutting and rehabbing with plans for short term rental (airBnB and travel nurses).