So I reached out to a hard money lender and a private lender but there taking forever to get back to me and I need to have a offer /proof of funds by next Monday.

He's sent us deals, introduced us to people, offered advice, and has even offered to guide us if we want to get into private lending (I would love to eventually).

Im going to make an assumption and assume that you mean you want to get into private money lending.

Using private money about 17k cost and looking to take 50k out after refi.

If you make passive investment such as private loan - there would not be any issues with UBIT, all income will be sheltered from taxes.

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You have a track record of closing on deals, so when having conversations with brokers, definitely bring that up.Here are a few other tips for winning over a commercial broker:Pay them a consulting feeTake them out for coffeeVisit their recent sales and tell them what you do and don't like about the properties as it relates to your ideal investmentProvide them with information on how you will fund a dealConstant follow-up: whenever you perform a task that brings you closer to completing a dealOnce you know how much cash you will have ($225k or $675k), you can figure out the max purchase price you can handle by assuming you will need 30% to 35% of the total project costs in equity.

I'd keep that as close to my vest as possible so that you retain the leverage and selling the house is not part of the conversation.

I have someone in mind that could make a great potential private investor.

It was a conversation that was had between my mother and I.